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Men and women both will cross that boundary and disrespect the sanctuary of marriage equally. The difference is the man who's saying, 'I don't care if you're married' is clearly saying, 'I just want to sleep with you.' The woman who is saying, 'I like you because you're married.' She's saying, 'At some point, I want her position.'